That’s a great idea and I feel we should tell the bride and groom that. I’m going to mention it. My hunch tells me however that they won’t spend the money and are just expecting family to do it. Curiously the bride’s father has been silent on this. I think it’s on purpose. They do t want to offer solutions because it might require them to pay for something. Because surely it has crossed the bride’s father’s mind several times how difficult of an undertaking this will be. He knows exactly how difficult his mother’s needs are.