She is looking for yet another lawyer? It sounds like the lawyers she obtains see she is a jerk and drop her You can’t make the children visit with her when they don’t want to see her.

Court is hard because the nature of it can leave a person to feel powerless. That being said you are getting to witness just how entitled and toxic your wife can be. She had you brainwashed and now you are finally seeing that and have taken back your power. That is progress.