@LadyShadow:

I'll look into ChatGPT. I've tried an AI boyfriend and an AI husband and found them too robotic. Hopefully ChatGPT will be a surprise. My problem is that the top 80% of women are attracted to the top 10% of men. So i'm just out-competed. I'm about a three so if i'm competing with fours thru tens, i'm just not interesting.

My only hope is to win a man over with my personality and that means creating the circumstances for an interesting man to get to know me. Currently i don't have the means to do that. All the guys in my drop-in are poor and usually also unattractive. The guys at Scrabble tend to be too young. There's the senior's center, but a lot of senior men have erectile dysfunction. I'm done with online dating after my experiences with "The Masturbator" and "The **** Pic."

It seems impossible.