he sounds like an %#@&#!. personally, if i was feeling in a very *****y mood id see who he was eyeing up next and before he got in there tell them he has some sort of manky sexually transmitted disease. and probably repeat this for the next few times. it wont help, its not getting on with things, but hell. i like to be a ***** sometimes.

i think personally hes not worth your time. you sound like a nice woman who deserves a proper man to treat her well. yah need to pick yourself up and try to get on with life. we all make mistakes. you definately deserve better.
i think its a good idea to go by your first impression sometimes. i know most of the time my first impressions are correct. in some occasions theyre totally wrong, but most of the time they make sense.
you seemed to get the right impression of him first off. he was an ***. time to show yourself that your worth more than that and get on with your life.