dayzee, we have the same situation. Some of our alters refuse to eat due to food being used to control us during the abuse. Our T is still trying to work with the alters who refuse to eat. But now we have littles who understand it's safe enough to eat now and our overeating. So we have the two extremes. I hope your T can work with the one who is not eating and Luck Good I know how hard it is to be triggered by something you need to keep you alive. Monty