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Originally Posted by raspberrytorte View Post
Anyway, I'm doing good. Went in today and had the post of my monroe piercing changed because the other one was too tight. Oh sweet relief! I need to get another piercing. But we're playing bill catch up from all the concerts we've went to last month and when I get "paid" instead of getting a piercing I have to stock up on my vapes since they'll be banned in September (only FDA regulated ones won't be, which is like three, and only the tobacco and menthol flavors).

I got a text from my mom this morning out of nowhere, asking how our summer has been so far, and I told her about all the concerts we've been to and she told me about her garden and eventually it evolved into her inviting us over on an afternoon when we're free.

I didn't respond because I didn't know what to say. I didn't know what to do!!!! I don't want to walk straight into the lions den! And I don't want to invite them out to lunch because right now we're trying to conserve money (again. Too much fun. Bill catch up). My mom is evil and toxic and there's sooooooo much negativity between my parents and I.

Plus they're going to criticize my appearance, and I don't feel like dealing with that.

BUT in the end I decided to make an old lady happy and go over, even if I don't want to.

What I REALLY want to do is ask them if they're disappointed my husband didn't turn out to be a drug abuser who beat me because, you know, that's what ALL tattooed guys who listen to metal music do. 🙄
Sorry you have to deal w/ such a toxic mom. My mom can be toxic at times, but not as bad as yours; mine is just passive aggressive (sigh).
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