My older and younger brother looked so much like my father as they lay in their caskets. It was spooky. I haven't recognized my image in the mirror since I became depersonalized at age 17. They say if we have a soul, it resides in the temporal lobe. If the eyes are the window to the soul, then mine was significantly damaged because when I look into my eyes in the mirror, all is dim. My EEG show significant pathology in my temporal lobe from a powerful temporal lobe seizure i suffered way back in 1971. . (most likely precipitated by parental abuse.)