here in uk things are diferant, yes teachers make a diferance and if they struggl;e with a group of children playing up and ppl know your son has problems they pick it up and blame one child rather than there own

oldest daughter never got help till she was a lot older the things the head would do to not to have to cope with her , first head put her on reins on a day trip to beach she was four/five then head left another came he sent her own with allsorts of aliments when it came to group activies including infection in her nostrels

in the end she was just left roam around school she inproved when she changed school and a good teacher was involved she had simuiler to iep
son he never qualified for extra help as he only had adhd but his behaviour was good in school as i taught him to respect teachers and while on meds he could behave

good luck