@JaneOnceMore. I don’t think it’s fair of him to suddenly act this way without explanation. He has threatened in the past to stop talking with me altogether- which just made me realize that he can be manipulative which is highly irregular for someone who is a therapist “in real life “! This is a 20+ year friendship. So I’m just going to let him cool off and hopefully want to tell me what’s going on in his head. Because I am not a mind reader as they say!