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Honestly it sounds to me like he is beating around the bush in telling you he isn't compatible with you in hopes you will GET IT & just leave him alone now. He is saying everything he can to discourage you but not wanting to hurt you so he doesn't honestly say it. Lol....I dated a guy in college, we both realized we weren't compatible & he said he was thankful for the mutual decision cause usually he had to make things bad so the girl would be the one to break up to avoid the drama. Don't be the drama.
You throw labels of diagnosis around for behavior excuses....bottom line, sounds very much like you 2 are incompatible & that is what he is trying to tell you. Never confuse lust for love either. Love grows out of respect & mutual compatibility....everything else is imagined in our wishful thinking. This comes from 72 years of experience & observation. Leave him alone. He has been clear even if it wasn't said clearly to end it. Like I said....many guys don't like to be the one to finalize the ending & they hope they can piss off the girl enough she will end it herself
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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