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just a seating preference in therapy

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Ha! No, he has two chairs across from each other and a couch in between, against the wall. So, when I sit on the couch, I am more at a right angle to him. When I come in he adjusts his chair to face me a bit. it's funny but I can tell how close I feel to him by what I am facing when I sit on the couch. There is a standing lamp and a picture on the wall. If I am centered in front of the picture all is well--I am feeling close. If I am centered in front of the lamp I have slid a bit further away from him.



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have gotten up from my seat on the couch and gone over to his couch to sit next to him on a few occasions.

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OMG I don't think I could handle this. There is the ET issue I deal with. Once when I was showing him a picture I painted, I walked over to his chair because he put his glasses on and goes, "Okay, what am I looking at?" LOL But I don't think I could sit NEXT to him...



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I wanted to model the behavior I would like from him,

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Actually I think this is a rather good idea!

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I like sitting down on the couch where he just has been, in his imprint

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Ha! Are we talking imprints or assprints? Now, Sunny, would that be a case of transference?