Jello,


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The only thing i did not ask or tell him was that last part... about asking for a sliding scale. If he knows full well what the situation is, then i want him to offer that.

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Now, I know you know the cardinal rule with T's is that you HAVE TO ask for what you need. I know it's hard but my T would never offer first. It's just part of the healing for us to ask.