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I would totally disregard him. He's not going to commit to anyone. My advice would be to talk to a therapist about why you are attracted to people like that and learn to change your thinking on acting on desires that are only going to hurt you in the long run. He's not worth even asking anything to or talking to, in my opinion. He's not a safe person. Good luck to you and please keep us posted.