Last week at the beginning of my session, T went to sit down and he pulled his chair back! This is the first time I've noticed it and it bothered me.

I just kind of looked at him but didn't say anything. I hate when I don't address a feeling when it is happening.

It made me feel bad like he didn't want to be too close to me or something. He obviously didn't mind his chair being closer to the person before me.

We ended up having a good session, I told him he was the only one who understands me and I am lucky to have him. He thanked me and that bothered me too.

Have any of you noticed your T pulling their chair back like that? Two and half years and this is the first I noticed it.