i'm so sorry for what you've gone thru. you and your sister. childhood abuse can affect us so much.

i understand about the bonds of a suffering sibling. other than being there for her and encouraging her to get help, there's not much more you can do. i'm sorry that it's not much advice i know you see her suffering and want to help, but she has to be the one to reach out and to get it.

one thing you can do, is look for possible places she can call and go to in order for emotional and physical help. you can hand her the referrals and tell her you'll go with her. have you tried that?

i know it hurts. i know it's such helpless feeling

i'm wishing so much for all involved right now.

be safe,

kd