My son... is ending a 7 year relationship... he is 23.. and it has been stormy... with.. her cheating on him.. and having another's baby... he stuck around... supported.. the both of them...
baby's dad.. is now in picture.. and things are a "little" tense...as my son and girl...are still "living" together...with 2.5 year old...
she has baby's dad... and.. her other male dates come to apartment..
the moving date is August....
my son is being stuborn.. and not leaving when baby's dad shows up - she wants a relationship with him...
he also... is "waiting" her out... making it uncomfortable for her.. he refuses.. to allow other men.. to the apartment... had.. an agruement with her... and.. yazza... he is not the "agruing" kind... mellow jello...
soooooooooooooooo..
all of a sudden... he is selling off... his possessions... not the ones that are nearest and dearest to his heart..
But.. things that he... has held onto... like his first truck.. he bought at 16.. and stored at my house.. and his bass boat.. and.. just lots of stuff...
he does not seem depressed... have talked to him.... and he is planning on buying a "quad".... for hunting with the money..
it just makes.. me worried... because 6 months ago.. he would never have parted with that truck...never...
Is this a good change.... a parting from the past...
or am I "missing" something... like depression????
I just don't want to miss... "depression"... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr... hard to be a parent....
so what do you think... is he ok???
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