Hello amusicboxmelody, welcome to PC.

The first thing that I'd suggest is sit down and discuss everything with him. Just talk it out. It sounds like you're starting arguements in an effort to force him to respond. I can't tell you how important straight talk is in a relationship. Or how many times I was so frustrated because I figured that my husband should know what's wrong or what I expect of him. It took a long time to learn that he's not a mind reader.

When you get in the habit of laying it all out, in a non-hostile manner, things are much better. There's no worrying about things that may or may not have happened. Good Luck.