I dunno, I get the feeling this would have played into my fears of looking fat? Perhaps if you'd both sat with what it would feel ike or mean if you did look fat? and whats wrong with looking fat? obese has health issues yes, but buying into this need to look slim? I dunno, but I get how good it made you feel, I do get that, I just dunno, I like people to help me deal with acceptence and to teach me I'm ok no matter what? Perahps I wrong here I dunno.