((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((EV)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

it sounds like you need to look for outside, professional resources...clinics, t's, p'docs, support groups, hosps, anywhere that you can find out some information on what your options are.

this is more than a hard situation, and you shouldn't be dealing with it alone! please seek some professional advice...for yourself...and i'm hoping in doing so you can get some good suggestions on how better to handle the situation with your bother.

i'm sending you so many thoughts and wishes right now.

kd