I agree you have a lot going on in your life. It is no wonder that you are worn out.

Your sister (in my opinion) is using her situation as an excuse for bad behavior. Then she is coming to you and asking you to tell her that it is alright because her husband is cold.

She probably stays because if she left it would take away her excuses not to mention her finances.

I don't want to be cruel or say bad things about your sister...but she is bringing you down with her.

I agree with Fayerody...you have to start thinking of you and yours first. Your health and well being need to be put at the front. Take care of you...you deserve it.

I am sorry if I am out of line but I am worried for you.

Please take care.