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If things are good in Virginia, I think I'd save a bit of money, get decent legal counsel in Florida and drag your ex- back into court in another courtroom from the one run by her pet goons and get a different setup going. Save up evidence of mistakes by the Court/System in collecting your money and incorrectly jailing you, your additional children requiring support, lower wages, etc. You can inconvenience your ex- as well as she has you. I'd at least try it.

Leave "worries" about the future/college, etc. to when they're appropriate. The US has free and scholarship programs for college too and many kids these days pay their way through anyway while working. Kids grow up and then it's a total non-issue; moving now might waste lots of opportunity to interact and be with your son and frustrate you further; move in 10 years after he's grown and can do as he wishes and you can help him then as you like, it will go by in a flash.

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I like this post, and the latter part puts me at ease a bit. Most people don't want to see their children grow up, but this child I certainly do for the reasons you stated.

I am going to do some legal research to see if it is possible that another judge/courtroom could decide our fates. That has been something I have always thought of, but never explored. I thought the answer was that the same judge had exclusive jurisdiction over everything. I don't want to turn this into a legal forum, so I will do my due diligence.

Thank you for this post!