I can understand you...my wife is disabled due to BiPolar and therefor doesn't work. She does help out a lot with the kids however. But even still, I have to do all the working (to bring home money), run the errands, go shopping, get everyone where they need to be, still have time to be with the kids and give her a break from them, as well as deal with everything else. Its get to be very frustrating and feeling like you have to be everywhere else for everyone else and no time for you at all. To top it off and make matters worse then one person you are supposed to be able to turn to for love and support with this (your spouse be it your husband or my wife) has basically turned a cold shoulder to you. My wife and I have not really been more than roommates for sometime. We have our times where we might go for a few days, a few weeks, or even a few months at most where we are getting close to being a couple again, but for the most part it feels like nothing more than roommates. I can understand and sympathize with you. I know this area here has what they call MoMs. Its basicaly a support group for women dealing with this same kinda stuff. Check out your area (this is ran by a church even though you don't need to belong to it or any to be a part) but see if they have something for you like that. It would be nice to have a DaDs group...but I think most ppl in society don't see has having those same issues.