The Protector (Jonathan) told me last night that HE'S the reason some of the switches are so hard. He's fighting to stay, and that causes the headaches and the passing out.

He told me he loves me, and he wants to stay with me. He doesn't want to leave me, so he tries to fight it.

Ooookkaaay...What do I do now?
Jon (Main) and I have talked once or twice about letting Jonathan have a "date night". It sounded like a good idea. I don't know if it's ethical or practical or acceptable to date both of them, but in some ways...isn't that for them to figure out?
But now I don't know if that would be such a good idea. If they're already fighting because Jonathan's falling in love with me, would it help or hurt to let us develop more of a relationship?

I just don't want to be a problem. I don't want them fighting over me. Especially if it causes physical harm.