I don't suffer from bipolar, I don't know much about it. I do know axiety though. I moved my son to a new school when he was going into second (we found he wasn't ready for second and put him back into first). He is now going into 5th grade. I think it's good that you are moving to the area where your house is being built. That way you won't have to move him in 2nd or 3rd grade. The earlier the better, your going to have to move him eventually right? We have an opertunity to move to a great area in a year or two, my son will be in middle school by then. I told my husband that I didn't want to go, I would do to my kids what my parents did to me. Your son is young, he'll be fine, by son has so many friends, he fit right in, I'm sure your son will too.