Hey bebop, last comm. You said you were handling it. Why anyone would advise a group based on that is mind boggling. How is your and hubby's progress? Sobiety has been so strucured that addiction is a genetic disease that we have no control over which has zero scientific backing. Maybe if hub thought he could stop on his own without life of groups he would at least try. Look, once the earth was flat, the sun revolved around it and slavery was the norm. Paradigms are-a shifting.