((((((((((((((((((((( tori ))))))))))))))))))))))) even if (by some miracle) this relationship still is at friendship status, it's INAPPROPRIATE!

this relationship needs to end...yesterday. i wish you the best in dealing with this. i hope it ends. it sounds like you love your husband very much. you need to tell your husband to not have any further contact with her period...change any numbers that she has, etc. it's up to him to end this...now.

sending wishes to you,

kd