Of course this is not the only reason for my marriage to fail. It just seems to be the only reason I might not be able to continue the marriage. We have our everyday marriage problems, but over-all he's really a great husband and father. I keep hearing people telling me that I'm so lucky and sex is only a small part of a relationship, but right or wrong it has always been a huge deal to me. I'm a very sexual person. I don't feel like I'm using it to fill anything. I've just always been kind of a guy when it comes to this kind of stuff.