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You are seen as a *****, selfish, no one likes that, especially if you usually are being walked over all the time.

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Who sees you this way? The person you were assertive with that is used to walking all over you? Or are YOU seeing yourself this way?
I tend to be assertive in professional roles but very passive in my personal relationships. When I first started re-asserting myself in my marriage, my H didn't like the change. Honestly, he adjusted.

I often think other people (friends) see me as a ***** or self-centered, but in reality they don't. It is me projecting.