You know i was with someone who was the same way with me too. he would alway say it is you not me or it is in your head. you have the problem not me and so on and so on. even my mom can be that way too. even the guy i am with now can be that way too sometimes. i told it isn't my depression it is something else. i hate when those who don't understand point it at something else and not listen. all we want is someone to listen.