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Doh2007 said:
I think women are taught to put everyone else first, and we need to be taught how to put ourselves near the top of the list.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I agree. I was taught to give my "husband" (or whatever man was around) the larger, better piece/portion of meat and I still have trouble with that! I have a wonderful husband and have tried to work it through, even with his help, but it feels so bad to decide one piece of meat/burger is bigger or "better" in some way and then give it to myself. It's insane!

When I'm by myself now though I can think more clearly about myself and what I want and, as long as they're "comparable," I can get something for me since I usually always get things for him/others too.