I suppose this won't say much for my character -- but I've had 1-night stands where I was the user and they guy wanted to hang around like slime on fish ----- but all that was long ago in my past and I'm a different person now.

I'll say this, though, CCL, if you got the sex itch and need to get it scratched, it feels better to be the one who walks away than the one who is left. Doesn't make it right or the way I'd want to live now . . .