No, I couldn't go with him... I'm already home (1100 miles). I was just there for 2 weeks in June. Truly though, he had the last year to make a doctor's appointment. He knew this was happening.. the e.d... he knows each time I'm coming out.. and I know he's seen a doctor a couple of times about this joint/muscle issue.

I truly do NOT know what to say to him anymore. It was no big deal at one point, and the intimate time was pretty good considering... but this last time I spent 2 weeks biting my lip as he rolled over to go to sleep.

Is there anything I could say.. or ask? I'm thinking about ending the relationship which is sad because I care for him so much, but I don't think being with a man who ignores things hoping they'll go away is the wisest thing to do.