I am so sorry this is happening to you. If it were me...I would be calling and checking into getting the locks changed while he was "meeting" this girl. If he thinks she is so great, let her support him. He can't have his cake and eat it too.

Someday, he will realize what he gave up to be with this girl...and he'll see the effect it had on his life.

I also agree with Sweet Crusader. He is jerking you around. You deserve better than this. You deserve to find someone who will love you as much as you love them. Someone that puts your needs and wants on the same level of importance as their own.