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Ingridave2 said:
I long for that sense of self. I have given and changed and adapted too much to convenience others or to become what I think they wanted me to be or become. I lost my self identity along the way. I have to come back to what I was once or at least understand what I was before all of the paths and turns. I feel that there is a purpose for the paths taken, but, I am losing me along the paths.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> There's a "workbook" I love (one of my favorite books) that helped me:

http://www.amazon.com/Following-Your...dp/0874776872/

It's based on the Tarot and your thoughts and feelings about its symbols.