Hi CCL,

The only time, IMHO, that one night stand 'work' is when you are both in it just for sex. My rule; that I think works - NEVER go to bed right away with someone you care about. If you do - you destroy any posiblity of respect - not to mention that the other party will always wonder if they can trust you etc.

But try not to beat yourself up on this one - most of us have been in your boat. It is a life experience to learn from.

Many Blessings,
Lorelei