If there is any good place to learn THIS is the place. I am working on my marriage which has suffered because of ME and my illnesses and insecurities. Luckily for me, hes decided to stay with me, he loves me. he must if he is still with me now. after 15 years of being traumatized.

Hes a good man and I am grateful.

Keep posting. We are good people, who are trying to get past a crappy thing. it doesnt make the behavior right, it just may explain it a bit better.

Take care.
Colleen