Still trying to stop laughing.
*wipes tears*
ohhhhh me. yeah, i guess going alone is a start =)
I'm not married, so i have no idea.
But i know my mom wanted to do the same and her husband went once ( i think to shut her up) and never again (she didn't go without him). They're divorced. It does take 2 to work on marriage. You could do everything he wants, including stand on your head, but he has to eventually realize that he's a part of the marriage and has to do some work also.
Good luck, Pink!