Forgiving those who have hurt me is hard. I know that it feels so much better to try to forget it all happened, and that makes me think that forgiveness would actually be even more therapuetic. And after all the years of suffering I've gone through because someone ELSE decided his ill will was more important than my rights, why should I continue to be the one suffering? I doubt any of those who have hurt me are suffering over it.

The question is how? How do I even begin to forgive? Sometimes its too scary to even remember...