((((((((((((((((((((((( kim ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I would guess what must be done is to go to your next session, and the next one, and the next one, and keep talking about this, and work through it. Sometimes the most painful things are the things that can lead us to the most growth and healing.
I can relate to the feeling of "I have needs that can never be met". I've said that to my T many times. But we just press on and trust the process. I don't know what the outcome will be....will the needs be met? Will they just go away? Will I come to some sort of acceptance that they can't be met? Will the needs change? Only time will tell.
It sounds like your T is committed to working through this with you. Hang in there.