I think you have to avoid certain triggers. There are so many graphic video games and movies. I was looking at video games for my husband the other day, the stuff they got out there should not be legal, completely simulates war a lot of the games have to do with the golf wars too (it's not right). There is no respect for the soldiers that put their life on the line for our freedoms, to make a game of their real life events is just wrong and disrespectful, it makes me a bit angry. One time I bought my husband a gift certificate to play paintball. He never used it and I asked him why and he said because he didn't want to "flip any switches". I am scared of what's going to happen when that switch does get flipped. I guess you also have to learn your limits to what you expose yourself to.

I also think that potential soldiers should be warned about the life long effect that war will have on them (they might do that I don't know, I've never asked my husband not really sure he would remember anyway).

I wish you the best.