Just started DBT last week! I was impressed when the therapist had said EVERYONE has had homicidal thoughts like "I could just kill that person" & I said I never have. She looked at me a little askance, but later she said she learned something & she shouldn't generalize like that as I was the first person she has met who has not had those kinds of thoughts so not EVERYONE has them. I liked that she didn't try to convince me that I DO have them.--Suzy