A quote from Sunrise's threat; " but that is what happens in real life too. We inadvertantly step on people's boundaries, they let us know, we take a step back, and do better next time, and the relationship grows. "

My response - we do??? And noticing that I don't often tell ppl IRL any of my boundaries - i just hold it all within. Even last night, with my friend at 4th of July. She wanted to see a certain kind of firework that spirals up into the air (but called it something else relating to the male anatomy) and kept doing so. I never told her it upset me. I just tried to brush it away. Not having boundaries makes me "easy going and worldly" (according to friends).... but it keeps me triggering internally and switching. Another good topic for t. At this rate, I'll *never* be out of therapy, we're already behind on topics!!