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Kiya said:
My response - we do???

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Ha, I can so relate to that! Believe me, I can't tell people my boundaries either. T tells me I have the most porous boundaries (i.e. non-existent) that he has seen. But I am in therapy, I am dysfunctional, and T is helping me. It's why I stayed in my crap marriage so long. But I was really talking about it from the other point of view--what happens when we step on someone else's boundaries? For some reason, I am ultra-respectful of other people's boundaries, but have none myself. But I'm in therapy, so I know I'm not good at life. I'm trying... Talk to your T if this is something you want to work on, Kiya.