Heh - i like it "But I'm in therapy, so I know I'm not good at life. I'm trying..." Yep - same. And t flat out told me that she's not going to ever let go of the ultimate goal of my health and all she thinks should go with it; freedom from my mom and my past, my own place, a possible intimite relationship with someone i love (you stayed in your marriage - i refused to go near one), etc...etc... SO i can count on working on it.
But yes, the boundary thing is something i should probably bring up sooner rather than later. I, too, am over-respectful of other's boundaries... and then have none. In time... in time...