(((((halliebeth))))) i don't know if their is anything that any of my abusers can do or have done to them to make things ok?... you know?... sometimes i think... if they would except responsibility for what they did... it would be healing for me... but that never happens... and now only 2 are still alive... so i guess for me... i have to find the answers within myself... and not with my abuser... i don't know how to do that and feel like i am at the beginning of the journey... but your right their is nothing that they can ever do or have done to them to make what happened ok.... stay safe... thinking about you...lyn