Gawd, I hate to, but you're probably right on. Yesterday took the cake. He didn't call for a couple of days so I called and asked what was wrong. He yelled "I want some time with my kid".. OMG! Where on earth did THAT come from? Um.. I've been THERE .. he doesn't spend every minute with his son! He lets him go out and play with the other kids and such.

I told him that it's becoming obvious that this relationship simply isn't viable. I feel he mistreated me when I was there and he has continued to do so and that I have to have a tad more self respect by not allowing this to continue.

I think we were a novelty to each other. In high school we had a big crush on each other and didn't do anything about it. So here.. 30 years later, we did something about it and I guess it was like cheating on time or something. So here I am.. alone again, naturally!