thank u bebop for tha reply. i do love him very much. and i want to love him for him but its really hard when he secretly looks up things that i wouldnt look up.he says hes not bi or interested in guys but sometimes i wonder??? and when we first got together he had a myspace page and on that page he listed himself as bi-sexual,when i asked him about it he said his ex put that on there, and of course i thought ok so why didnt you change it. he did eventually.