Well LMo, I am going to give you some insight into what he is going to do if you follow through with Heathers plan of giving him a swift kick in the bum, or making him leave. BAM. You find him dead the next day. If he is seriously suicidal at all like myself, he will do it immeadiatly. I am in the same situation as him, on the verge of having no where to live, and if someone finally told me "You have to leave you can't live here anymore, go support yourself" I'd be dead the next day. Its not the right thing to do LMo, and I can honestly say that because I'm sure what I am saying would come true. What your doing for him is amazing, your right that you may never have this end, that is true, but think that even if you never have kids... you will know that you have made one persons life amazing, and kept them safe from themselves for all these years, and ultimately did the right thing in saving him.

Your wonderful and keep it up. Sorry if I was so bllunt with the "BAM" part, it doesn't phase me at all but I know it bothers those who are not suicidal, sorry.

Death Calls Us All, How Long We Prolong It Is Our Choice