do you have a hard time holding your own when you've made a decision that others don't agree with? OMG, i do! i'll either over react and become very defensive of my decision (while second guessing myself immediately inside) or i'll second guess it almost apologetically (is that a word? lol).

because of this, i can appear very wishy-washy. i wish some day, i could make a decision, stand on it, and feel good about it inside as well...all while others may not agree with me.

i know i do this due to my low self esteem. i don't have the confidence in self to be ok with someone else's disapproval of me or my decisions.

if you've done this, have you found things to help you with it? let me know

kd