(((Jinnyann)))

This is not pathetic, this is a post by mother who truly loves her daughter, not a thing in the world wrong with that. It is a big adjustment for anyone. So do not feel bad about yourself at all, just know that all the wonderful qualities she has are in part because you were there for her in those 19 years and will continue to be there when she needs you, albeit in a slightly different capacity.

I will never live to have children (for a lot of reasons) so I will never know all of the feelings attached but I will empathize with you the best I can, just know that even if she is no longer living there with you, she still treasures you always.

So yes, cry away, miss her, but most of all be proud of the young woman she has become and wish her well.

Take care...

TJ